I was at my brothers job last year, mostly a friendly visit. While I’m there he introduces me this guy whom I will call Guy. My first impression was that he was really tall, quiet, and good looking. But that was it. We spoke, he went back to work and I went on my marry way. Now, I can’t lie and say that I wasn’t physically attracted to him. I was, but other than that I knew nothing about him. And I didn’t get any hint that he was interested in me. My brother tried to be match maker and say, “…maybe you can exchange contact information and hang out sometime.” This of course made the situation awkward, I mean he didn’t even allow that connection to happen organically. Which is the way I think relationships are supposed to happen. NATURALLY! There is nothing worst than being in a “relationship” that was forced to happen. Anyway, I left that day without the exchanging of goods. The weekend rolls around a my brother says that Guy asked for my email. Honestly, that shocked me. But I accepted it for what it was. I met him on Friday, he emailed me on Monday morning. He was very kind and respectable in his emails. We had emailed that whole day, having the usual get-to-know you conversation. Very casual, and relaxed. By the end of the day he asked for my number so that we could talk more later. I did so, and we did. Over the course of the next 1-2 weeks, we talked almost everyday, he would text me the generic “good morning beautiful” or “sweet dreams gorgeous”. Now mind you, we never actually had a phone conversations, nor did we ever meet in person. Until, a second time I had gone to my brothers job. I told Guy that I was going to be up there and he said “Call me when you so and we can meet up.” I agree and then think that this would be our first post introduction face to face meeting. I wasn’t nervous, but I was excited. After talking to him for 2 weeks I had really gain somewhat of a like for him. But I would consider myself old school. I like to meet people face to face and actually spend time together. Back to the story, when I arrived at my brothers job and when I called Guy to tell him I was there, he seemed a bit shy, compared to his typical outgoing personality via text. Anyway, I got to the office and he was DULL! Barely spoke to me, don’t really think we spoke more than 5 words to each other. After I left that day, I was a little disappointed. Why you ask? Well, because he was charming while we were texting and to get the cold shoulder was a little unsettling. But whatever, we were just friends so technically no bells and whistles were owed.
PAUSE
I feel like I need to take a break from this, so I’ll tell you the rest later. I promise there is an end to this story. I just can’t get to it today…
later
nikki
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